Friday, August 15, 2014

Sean's Sacrament Meeting Talk - July 2014

Sean is so handsome up on the stand in his Sunday best. I love seeing him up there every week.
And it was a special treat to hear him give a talk. He did a great job.
I'm so blessed to have such a righteous husband.
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Building Zion Where You Live
          I pray that I may have the spirit with me this day as I address you. I hope I not only speak clearly with words, but also with the spirit. The spirit is the true teacher, and will teach the message you need to hear and understand. I have put much thought and prayer into this talk, and I hope it edifies your life and testimony of the restored gospel.
          The history of the Lord’s people has been one of much difficulty and struggle. Many times throughout the history of the gospel; society became too secular and sinful and undermined the commandments of God. The Lord’s people would be left to flee, and reestablish Zion. We saw this happen with Abraham who fled Babylonia.  Moses led his people out of Egypt.  Lehi and his family fled Jerusalem, and prior to that we saw the exodus of the Jeradites.
          In more recent history, we saw the establishment of the United States, which made it possible for many to flee their own homelands to worship freely. This ultimately made it possible for the gospel to be restored in our time. Joseph Smith had to flee with the Latter Day Saints through New York, Pennsylvania, Ohio, Missouri and into Illinois. President Brigham Young led the saints to the Salt Lake Valley to avoid persecution as well. Fleeing to reestablish Zion has been a pattern throughout the history of the Lord’s people. This has always been the pattern, but is no longer the pattern now. We are called to build up Zion where we stand. God has called us to be more Christ like, and have the determination to establish Zion.
I want to share with you some stories and lessons that Elder Holland recently shared in the June Ensign.
Lesson 1- Never Check Your Religion at the Door
The first story, involves a young return missionary. This story is for Mathew Lence, because the young return missionary played college basketball. He played for one of the college teams here in Utah. He was a good young man and a great ball player. He was not getting the playing time he hoped for, so with the full support of his coaches and teammates he transferred schools. This is a very common occurrence in college sports. At the new school things clicked, and he was very successful and became a starter. When his team returned to play in Salt Lake City the young man was met with great profanity and verbal abuse. The young man was a newlywed, full tithe payer, served in the Elder’s quorum, served the youth in the community, was waiting for the birth of their baby. This young man or any young man should not have experienced the poor behavior of the fans.
His coach, a legend in the sport, said to the young man, “What is going on here? You’re a hometown boy who has made good. These are your people. These are your friends.” But worst of all, the coach asked, “Aren’t most of these members of your church?”
The next day after the game, there was public outcry and call to repentance over the incident for all the fans behavior the night before.
One young fan said, “Listen. We are talking about basketball here, not Sunday school. If you can’t stand the heat get out of the kitchen. We pay good money to see the games. We can act the way we want. We check our religion at the door.”
We check our religion at the door?
The first rule of establishing Zion is we never check our religion at the door. Mosiah 18:9- States, “to stand as witness of God at all times and in all things, and in all place”.
We must never check our religion at the door. We are to be an example of Christ, and his love at all times. The Lord will give us courage to do the right thing, even when it is not the popular thing to do. If we want to be a missionary, we need to be proud of our religion, and live it always.
Lesson 2- Be Compassionate but Be Loyal to the Commandments
Elder Holland was once invited to speak at a young single adult devotional.  As he entered the door he noticed a woman about 30 years old. It was hard not to notice her. She had a couple of tattoos, a variety of ear and nose rings, spiky hair reflecting all the colors of the rainbow, a skirt that was too high, and a blouse that was too low.
Elder Holland wondered, “Was this woman a struggling soul not of our faith, who had been led—or even better, had been brought by someone—to this devotional under the guidance of the Lord to help her find the peace and the direction of the gospel she needed in her life? Or was she a member who had strayed from some of the hopes and standards the Church encourages for its members but who was still affiliating and had chosen to attend this Church activity that night?”
How would you respond in this situation? How we respond in this situation has the possibility of making things better or worse. We should not act in a way in which we can cause greater offense.
I would suggest that all responses be done in love. I think in most situations we say nothing about the appearance of an individual, but instead make them feel welcome. We should show love and kindness. We should be a friend and get to know them.
Last week I attended a Seattle Mariner baseball game while visiting my home town. There were people holding up signs, saying “Repent Sinners” and etc. They had a megaphone and were just going on and on about how evil everyone was. I thought to myself what makes these people do this? Do they think this having a positive effect. I then realized that many times we can act as unlovingly as the person with the megaphone and sign. We have all the good intentions in the world, but we forget that God’s way is to show love. We judge someone, and make a hurtful remark. I hope we can all avoid going around with the proverbial megaphone.   Our heavenly father’s way is to teach correct principles using the spirit.
One of my favorite quotes from President Monson is:
“Never let a problem to be solved, become more important than a person to be loved.”
I love this quote. It is something I try to remember. I try to remember the potential of every person, and remember that all people need to be loved. I believe that all people want to feel welcomed. I also have found that once you have those relationships it is a lot easier to teach our friends, neighbors and family the gospel.
I love primary songs, mostly because I really am a Sun Beam at heart. One of my favorite songs is “I am trying to be like Jesus”. My favorite line in the song is “Try to show kindness in all that you do, be loving and gentle in deed and in thought, for these are things, Jesus taught”. Brothers and Sisters, please try to show kindness in all that you do. The greatest argument for which we believe is how we treat our fellow men.
In a recent conference address, President Uchdorf shared a bumper sticker he recently saw. The bumper sticker said:
“Don’t judge me, because I sin differently than you”
I try to remember I am not perfect. Maybe my sins and struggles are more private, but nonetheless I have struggles. Once again, I say focus on the potential of an individual.
Just because we show love it does not mean we do not have opinions, standards, or disregard the shalls and shall nots of the gospel. We must defend righteous principles and truth. Every situation is different. We must pray to the Lord for guidance on our action.
Elder Holland said, “This Church can never dumb down its doctrine in response to social goodwill or political expediency or any other reason. It is only the high ground of revealed truth that gives us any footing on which to lift another who may feel troubled or forsaken. Our compassion and our love—fundamental characteristics and requirements of our Christianity—must never be interpreted as compromising the commandments.
When we face such situations, it can be very challenging and confusing. Young people may ask, “Well, we don’t believe we should live or behave in such and such a way, but why do we have to make other people do the same? Don’t they have their free agency? Aren’t we being self-righteous and judgmental, forcing our beliefs on others, demanding that they act in a certain way?”
In those situations you are going to have to explain sensitively why some principles are defended and some sins opposed wherever they are found because the issues and the laws involved are not just social or political but eternal in their consequence. And while not wishing to offend those who believe differently from us, we are even more anxious not to offend God.
Lesson 3-  Use Gospel Values to Benefit Communities and Countries.
Reflect Your Love of Jesus Christ
As we work to establish Zion, we should try our best to have a greater influence in our community. We should try to do service, and be an answer to the prayers of others around us. The following is a poem that I love. It is reminder that we need to be the answer to others prayers, and bless others’ lives around us.
Revelation
I knelt to pray when day was done.
And Prayed, “O Lord, bless everyone;
Lift from each saddened heart the pain
And let the sick be well again.”
And then I woke another day
And carelessly went on my way.
The whole day long I did not try
To wipe a tear from any eye;
I did not try to share the load
Of any brother on my road;
I did not even go to see
The sick man just next door to me.
Yet once again when day was done
I prayed, “O Lord, bless everyone.”
But as I prayed, into my ear
There came a voice that whispered clear;
“Pause, hypocrite, before you pray,
Whom have you tried to bless today?
God’s sweetest blessings always go
By hands that serve Him here below.”
And then I hid my face, and cried,
“Forgive me, God, for I have lied;
Let me but see another day
And I will live the way I pray.”
-Whitney Montgomery
 
When our heavenly father comes, I hope he finds me living the gospel. I hope he finds me doing good, and establishing Zion here on earth.
 
Elder Holland said, “I want the Savior to say to me: “Jeffrey, I recognize you not by your title but by your life, the way you are trying to live and the standards you are trying to defend. I see the integrity of your heart. I know you have tried to make things better first and foremost by being better yourself and then by declaring my word and defending my gospel to others in the most compassionate way you could.”
He will certainly add: “I know you weren’t always successful with your own sins and with the circumstances of others, but I believe you honestly tried. I believe in your heart you truly loved me.”
I hope to hear these words. They bring a lot of comfort to me, because the Lord only asks that I try my best.


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