Wednesday, July 22, 2015

Sam's Sacrament Meeting Talk - May 2015

Knowledge – An Attribute of Christ
Sean and I grew up in Snohomish Washington on opposite sides of the Snohomish valley. We were in the same stake but went to different high schools and met in different church buildings. We met in the summer of 2001 at our stake youth conference when I asked Sean to dance. We’re both motor mouths and had endless things to talk about so we became instant friends, soon best friends and eventually we started dating and were high school sweethearts.
Growing up in Washington, I imagine, is a lot different than growing up in Utah. Our stake had five different high schools in it. Here in Utah you can have five stakes in one high school. In my graduating class there were only four members out nearly 400. Being Mormon is something that makes you different and stand out. I was the only member of the church that several of my fellow classmates and friends knew. I was their soul impression of the church. Being a member of the church also instantly bonds people together when there aren’t many members around.
In high school I loved any and all church sponsored activities. Stake dances were a so fun. Each stake held one each month. And we’d go to different stake’s dances on different weekends just so we could see our friends. Through these activities I met four awesome girls. We called ourselves the “Lively Fively.” We were loud, sang a lot, wore matching lime green hats and argyle socks, converse and bright red lipstick.
Sean served in the Peru Lima East Mission while I went to a junior college in Washington, then attended BYU-Idaho and also studied at a university in Chile. I had the opportunity to travel a bit while living in South America. I visited and climbed Machu Picchu in Peru, something Sean was never able to do even though he lived in the country for two years. Six months after Sean returned home we were married in the Seattle temple. That was truly one of the happiest days of my life. I feel blessed everyday because Sean is my husband!
Sean and I earned our Bachelor’s degrees at BYU-Idaho. I studied Child Development and Sean studied Accounting. We absolutely loved Rexburg and BYU-Idaho. We left Rexburg with two bachelor’s degrees and two babies.
After school, Sean got a job auditing for the Department of Defense with the D.C.A.A. Sean knew someone, who knew someone in Albuquerque and he was hired. So we moved to Albuquerque New Mexico and lived there for two years. It was a great experience. We didn’t know a single person in the state when we moved there and we had never been there before. We just found an apartment online and went. We had the most amazing ward and instantly we felt like we had family.
In 2012, Sean transferred to the Salt Lake office and we moved into an apartment in West Jordan. While living in West Jordan our last two children were born. In the summer of 2013 we decided it was time to buy our first home. We bid on several homes but we kept getting out bid. Finally, we got a counter offer but we got a strong impression that we weren’t supposed to buy a house at that time. So we moved within the complex to a bigger apartment. Shortly after that our complex was formed into its own branch. That’s right, a branch in the middle of the Salt Lake valley. We loved it!  Sean served as the second counselor in the Branch Presidency when the branch was first formed. When he was extended the calling we knew that’s why we weren’t supposed to move. The Lord had plans for us. After a year, Sean was released. Literally, the week Sean got released, he got the impression that we should come check out Tooele.
We moved into our home just last month. In our eight years of marriage we’ve lived in four states in seven different places. We’re so sick of moving! So I hope you guys like us because we’re going to be around for a long time! We’re already been put to work too. Last week I was called as the first counselor in the Young Women’s Presidency and Sean was called to teach the CTR 4 class.
          We have four children. Our oldest is Lexi who is almost seven and will be a second grader at Copper Canyon in the fall. Lexi is an awesome speller and has an amazing memory. Since she was little she’d preferred dresses to pants. When Lexi was born after 32 hours of labor and a c-section delivery, I instantly learned that parenthood is full of surprises!
Our second child is Avery. She just turned five and will be in kindergarten this fall, something she’s been looking forward to for a long time. Avery is our free spirited child. She marches to the beat of her own drum. She’s our only child without blue eyes and the only left handed person in our family. She is the only kid we’ve ever lost at a store and the only one to have broken a bone. We lots of interesting stories to share because of her.
 Eli is our only boy. He doesn’t realize yet that he’s out numbered. He’s two and a half. He loves cars, animals, his baby sister and being outside. He enjoys playing in the dirt and rocks in our unfinished yard.
Ruby will be six months old tomorrow. She is the best baby, the perfect fourth child. She’s happy all the time and is content being held or just laying on the floor watching her siblings play.
          I’m a stay at home mom. I love taking pictures of my children, blogging, trying new recipes, eating anything with chocolate in it, reading, playing board games, going on walks and spending time with family and friends. Sean has an obsession with hats, he loves flags and maps and geography. Sean taught himself how to play the ukulele through YouTube videos. He loves music. He also loves sports. His teams are the Seattle Mariners, the Seahawks and BYU.
I was born in Long Beach California. My only sibling, a brother named Ryan, was born 16 months after me. Not long after that we moved to central Washington where my mom is from and my parents were divorced. My mom needed a fresh start so we moved to western Washington a little north east of Seattle.
My biological father was in my life, off and on, until I was 12. Then I saw him once when I was 15. After that I didn’t see him again for another 11 years and I didn’t talk to him most of those years either. No one ever knew where he was. He basically wrote himself out of mine and Ryan’s lives. He never grew up and never took responsibility for himself or his family. His life is a story of so much potential wasted and poor decisions and their sad consequences.
But you don’t need to feel sorry for me because I have dad and his name is Donn. Donn met my mom through work when I was five. They dated for five years before they were married. Their dates consisted of taking me and Ryan out to eat. A few years after they were married, and after many, many lessons with several sets of missionaries, Donn was baptized. Later my parents were sealed in the temple and eventually I was sealed to them. An eternal family was something I had been hoping for as long as I can remember.
Donn proved to be the biggest blessing to our family. He has flourished in the gospel. He has served in many capacities including the ward High Priest Group Leader, as a counselor in the Bishopric for five years and now on the Stake High Council. He has brought so much love to our home; he is a great example and the best dad!
          Sean’s parents are both from Utah- Tremonton and Provo. They met while serving in the Eastern States Mission.  They moved to Washington early in their marriage for a temporary job but they never left. Sean is the fourth of six children. He grew up in a happy home that was filled with the gospel and lots of love. Sean’s parents struggled to get by though their kids never knew it. They lived in a modest three bedroom home so my father-in-law created a fourth bedroom in the garage and that’s where Sean slept most of his life, which proved to be ideal since Sean had a garage band in high school. He and several of his friends in the ward created a ska band. Ska is like punk rock with horns.
          During Sean’s freshman year of high school his mom was diagnosed with cancer. She beat it and went into remission for a few years but it came back during Sean’s senior year. Sean’s mom passed away the week before he graduated from high school and two weeks before his sister’s wedding. Losing his mom at such a young age was very difficult. But because of that trial Sean’s family is closer and his faith is stronger. Sean attributes much of faith to the example of his mother and the strengthen he received from the Lord during those hard times.
          We all know that bearing our testimony brings the Spirit. So, I’d like to begin my talk by bearing my testimony. I would like to invite the Spirit to be with me now. I know that God lives and that He loves us. We are His children. I believe in the Plan of Salvation. I know it to be true. I know that it brings happiness and peace. I know that families are the most important thing. Everything we do should be centered in Christ and focused on the family. I know that Christ came to this earth. He lived among men and taught them and all of us how to live so that we may return to our Father in Heaven. I believe that the scriptures are the words of God given through his prophets.
          I’d like to speak about knowledge. Knowledge is an attribute of Christ. When we talk of Christ we often talk of His love and compassion, His unwavering faith. We speak of His patience, His humility and His obedience to the Father. Sometimes we forget about his knowledge and wisdom. Jesus Christ and our Father in Heaven are geniuses! Everything on earth, even our very own bodies testify that the Father and the Son are brilliant and they had a perfectly laid out plan for this earth and us with perfect laws. Their intelligence is all encompassing.
In Doctrine and Covenants 88:118 the Lord commanded, “Seek learning, even by study and also by faith.” We are to seek knowledge, especially spiritual knowledge. The word “seek” is a verb, meaning it’s an action word. It means to “attempt to find something or to attempt or desire to obtain or achieve something.” We should seek knowledge from the ultimate textbook or guidebook, the scriptures! We have been counseled over and over and over again by the prophets to study the scriptures every day. Notice that I said study not read and I said every day.
President Ezra Taft Benson said: “We should make daily study of the scriptures a lifetime pursuit. … The most important [thing] you can do … is to immerse yourselves in the scriptures. Search them diligently. … Learn the doctrine. Master the principles. … You must … see that … searching the scriptures is not a burden laid upon [us] by the Lord, but a marvelous blessing and opportunity.”
Here’s a question to ponder. Are we as well versed in gospel truths as we are in our studies, careers, hobbies, sports, or our texts and tweets? Do we actively seek to find answers to our questions by feasting on the scriptures and the teachings of the prophets? Do we seek the confirmation of the Spirit?
The importance of gaining knowledge is an eternal principle. The Prophet Joseph Smith “loved knowledge for its righteous power.” He said: “Knowledge is necessary to life and godliness. … Hear, all ye brethren, this grand key: knowledge is the power of God unto salvation.” Knowledge is power!
Joseph Smith also declared, “It is impossible for a man to be saved in ignorance” (D&C 131:6). He added, “The principle of knowledge is the principle of salvation … and every one that does not obtain knowledge sufficient to be saved will be condemned.”
So it is essential that we diligently and daily seek to increase our knowledge of the gospel. We must strive to everyday be a little bit smarter and more knowledgeable about the gospel. Abraham Lincoln said, “I don’t think much of a man no wiser today than he was yesterday.”
 It can seem an overwhelming task to learn something new each day but we need to remember the Lord’s pattern which we find in the Book of Mormon, in 2 Nephi 28:30, “For behold, thus saith the Lord God: I will give unto the children of men line upon line, precept upon precept, here a little and there a little; and blessed are those who hearken unto my precepts, and lend an ear unto my counsel, for they shall learn wisdom; for unto him that receiveth I will give more; and from them that shall say, We have enough, from them shall be taken away even that which they have.”
Much of my knowledge of the gospel has come through study and much of it has come through personal revelation and answers to prayers. The Lord likes to give many small answers to our questions over a period of time. Revelation is like a little package of light, the more we get the more we see and understand.
Elder Richard G. Scott taught in the October 1993 General Conference, “As you seek spiritual knowledge, search for principles. Carefully separate them from the detail used to explain them. Principles are concentrated truth, packaged for application to a wide variety of circumstances. A true principle makes decisions clear even under the most confusing and compelling circumstances. It is worth great effort to organize the truth we gather to simple statements of principle. I have tried to do that with gaining spiritual knowledge.” Elder Scott teaches us that to acquire spiritual knowledge and to obey it with wisdom, one must: 1) In humility, seek divine light. 2) Exercise faith in Jesus Christ. 3) Hearken to His counsel. And 4) Keep His commandments... As spiritual knowledge unfolds, it must be understood, valued, obeyed, remembered, and expanded.
In the October 2012 General Conference, Sister Ann Dibb taught, “All truth and knowledge is important, but amidst the constant distractions of our daily lives, we must especially pay attention to increasing our gospel knowledge so we can understand how to apply gospel principles to our lives. As our gospel knowledge increases, we will begin to feel confident in our testimonies and be able to state, “I know it.””
Right now I’m a mom with very young children. It is primarily mine and my husband’s responsibility to teach our children. Proverbs 22:6 reads, “Train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old, he will not depart from it.”
The Family, A Proclamation to the World declares: “Parents have a sacred duty to rear their children in love and righteousness, to provide for their physical and spiritual needs, and to teach them to love and serve one another, observe the commandments of God, and be law-abiding citizens wherever they live. Husbands and wives—mothers and fathers—will be held accountable before God for the discharge of these obligations.”
So how do we teach our children to love and serve one another and observe the commandments of God???
 We teach them in our homes through daily family scripture study. It’s not enough to just read the scriptures together. It’s important that we teach our children about what we’re reading. For our family that means using paper dolls or action figures or our bodies to act out the stories. We sing primary songs about the scriptures and the people in them. We read from the scriptures as well as the illustrated picture scriptures. And we talk about the scripture stories over and over and over again. And then we talk about them some more! And I ask my children questions.
And know that sometimes it can take a long time to see that your children are understanding and learning from what you’re reading or what you’re teaching them. The key is to remain constant. It’s important to be patient. Good habits are the soul’s muscles. The more you use them, the stronger they grow.
 
This year we decided that we’d start reading the Book of Mormon together as a family. We try to read a column a day. This week we’re going to be finishing the First Book of Nephi. It will take years for us to finish the entire book at the pace we’re going and that’s okay.
Children are like sponges, they soak up everything. They are so curious and full of questions. They want to learn about everything! Aristotle said, “All men by nature desire knowledge.” While our children are young, it’s the ideal time to teach them to know and love the gospel.
This year we also decided to let Lexi and Avery take turns in the teaching rotation for Family Home Evening. It’s been fun helping them plan their lessons and watching them teach. It’s becoming clear that they are learning and enjoy the gospel.
Elder Boyd K. Packer said, “True doctrine, understood, changes attitudes and behavior. The study of the doctrines of the gospel will improve behavior quicker than a study of behavior will improve behavior.” A knowledge and understanding of the gospel will soften hearts and improve attitudes. Plato said, “The ultimate aim of education is the training of character.”
If I want my family to have a knowledge and love of the gospel, I first have to teach them the gospel! And in order for me to be able to teach it, I first have to know it myself. Even though, I often feel like I have no time for myself, it is important that I make time to daily study the gospel and have a spiritual experience. Sometimes this means staying up late reading my scriptures, sometimes I listen to conference talks while getting ready in the morning, sometimes my children and I will watch videos on lds.org or listen to primary songs together.
We can receive eternal life and salvation from knowing the only true God and Jesus Christ, whom he has sent. Many believe that there is a God, many say that they know there is a God, but many do not act like they know God. There is a great difference in believing or knowing that there is a God and in knowing God. When we claim that we know God, it bears great responsibility, and an apostle has given us information to check our knowledge of God. The apostle John said:
“And hereby we do know that we know him, if we keep his commandments. He that saith, I know him, and keepeth not his commandments, is a liar, and the truth is not in him. But whoso keepeth his word, in him verily is the love of God perfected: hereby know we that we are in him. He that saith he abideth in him ought himself also so to walk, even as he walked.”
         
I think it’s also important to mention that knowledge of none religious things is important too. President Hinckley repeatedly stressed the importance of education. He wisely counseled the youth. So listen up youth. “The pattern of study you establish during your formal schooling will in large measure affect your lifelong thirst for knowledge. You must get all of the education that you possibly can. … Sacrifice anything that is needed to be sacrificed to qualify yourselves to do the work of [this] world. … Train your minds and hands to become an influence for good as you go forward with your lives.”
President Thomas S. Monson said to the sisters: “Often the future is unknown; therefore, it behooves us to prepare for uncertainties. … I urge you to pursue your education and learn marketable skills so that, should such a situation arise, you are prepared to provide.”
Abraham Lincoln said, “Whatever you are, be a good one.” It’s important that we strive to continually learn and improve ourselves in whatever roles we have. I’m a mom so for me that means that I’m learning knew crafts and activities to share with my children. I’m constantly finding new books that I can read with my children. I’m trying to figure out how to teach my girls to read, write and do math. I work on finding new affordable and delicious meals to prepare for my family. My children are all unique and have different needs so I always am looking for ways to help them individually grow and learn.
          I hope that each of us will cultivate a love of learning throughout our lifetimes. It has been said that after we die our knowledge is the only thing that we will be able to take with us. If we are to someday be Gods and Goddess of our own worlds, we’re going to need to know a few things first!
          I’d like to close my talk with a poem. Its author is unknown. “Learn enthusiasm from youth – young people possess it in abundance. Learn wisdom from the mature – they have experienced much. Learn understanding from God – He knows the end from the beginning. Learn integrity from oneself – let your conscience be your guide.”
          It is my prayer that I have been an instrument for the Lord and that through the Spirit you have been inspired and edified. I say these things in the name of the Almighty, our Savior and Redeemer. Jesus Christ. Amen.


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